Indoor and Outdoor Cold Weather Activities For the Whole Family

Wintertime is here and though the chilly weather might make you want to hibernate, keeping yourself occupied is a great way to offset the gloominess of the season. Whether you prefer to stay indoors or explore the wintery landscape, there are many family friendly options to explore.

Outdoors

1) Try ice skating

If you own your own skates, you can try to find a frozen pond in your area but only after you make sure it’s safe! If you don’t own skates or you don’t have access to a safely frozen body of water, see if there’s a nearby rink.

2) Sledding

A classic wintertime staple, the joy of sledding is hard to beat. If you don’t own a sled, see if there’s a local friend to let you borrow one. 

3) Snow sculpture competition

Nothing like some casual competition to foster some family bonding! Here’s an article about creative snowman building, but your imagination is the limit! 

Indoors

1) Baking

The warm smell of spices and baked goods wafting through the house is a surefire way to increase coziness immediately. Plus, the process is a fun collaborative activity too! Here are some winter baked good recipes.

2) Arts and Crafts

Working with your hands is fun and mentally stimulating. Plus, you end up with some cute winter themed decor! Here’s a bunch of winter decor crafting ideas. 

3) Family Book Club

This might be tricky if your kids are Nothing like some casual competition to foster some family bonding! Here’s an article about creative snowman building, but your imagination is the limit! too young or too far apart in age, but try a family book club. You can set aside one night a week where you have a favorite meal together and talk about the book.

Stay warm, happy, and healthy this winter! 

Looking to Enjoy Sex When Trying to Conceive? Here Are 4 Tips

Conceiving is an exciting time for a lot of reasons, but sexiness isn’t generally known as one of them. The process of trying to conceive for some can border on business at times between tactics like tracking ovulation cycles and scheduling sex. Regardless of efficacy, this definitely takes some of the fun and pleasure out of sex and it can start to feel like more of a chore than anything else. Having sex with a goal doesn’t mean it has to be devoid of fun! Here are some tips for enjoying sex while conceiving is on the brain:

1) Switch it up

• Perhaps an obvious point, but an important one nonetheless, keep it fresh! Whether that means trying out sex toys, new positions, BDSM/kink, shared erotica or porn, new times of day, or another tactic, keeping it fresh will help retain the excitement that sex brings.

2) Try to enjoy the journey even though the motivation behind the sex is destination-oriented

• When you’re having sex more frequently than you might otherwise, it’s tempting to want to cut to the chase and skip the foreplay. All this will do in reality is diminish your enjoyment, and potentially make it harder to have sex at all; for instance, if you can’t produce lubrication because you haven’t had enough foreplay, penetration might not work at all. All this is to say that foreplay is worth the time and will make sex feel less like a chore. Furthermore, it will help you feel more connected to your partner and more at ease.

• A related point is to try to have both “goal oriented” sex for your conception journey and additionally, sex just for fun. If all your sex is goal oriented, the stress and pressure begins to be associated with sex might serve to discourage you from having it.

3) Spontaneity versus scheduling

• There are pros and cons to spontaneous sex versus scheduling sex. Spontaneous sex might feel more natural and less pressured, while scheduling sex allows for synchronicity with fertility cycles. Ultimately, it will depend on the personalities of the people in the relationship which one works better, but leave the door open for a combination of both (or at least try not to get stuck in the thought that one is empirically better than the other).

4) Spend some time apart

• This might seem counterintuitive to your ultimate goal but in fact, time apart will allow you both to have more “me time” to care for yourself. Conceiving to have a child is not only a physically process but an intensely emotional one and you owe it to yourself to care for yourself properly. Additionally, too much time together can be suffocating and make it hard to feel sexy when the time comes, so do yourself a favor and spend time alone.

Congratulations on your decision to try to conceive, and hopefully some of these tips will help you ensure that the journey is as enjoyable as possible while getting you where you want to be! If you continue to struggle to enjoy sex while conceiving and it becomes an issue, consider speaking to a sex therapist like one of the professionals at Embrace Sexual Wellness.

How to Keep Kids Entertained During Holiday Breaks

The upside of the holiday season: your kids get off from school and you get to spend more time with them! The downside?... you have to figure out how to entertain them! The holidays are stressful enough without having to either brainstorm a million ideas for entertainment or surrendering yourself to the screens. Hopefully these ideas will give you a jumpstart, but it will be even more effective to ask your kids what they want to do. If they’re too young to come up with ideas, perhaps you can give them a couple options to choose between. Giving kids a sense of autonomy by inviting them to figure out how they want to spend their time will make them more engaged.

1) Involve them in holiday preparations like cooking and decorating.

• Making gifts, decorations, holiday cards, and wrapping paper from scratch

• Helping to plan the holiday dinner menu

• Baking holiday desserts and decorating cookies

2) Volunteer together. Some examples are…

• Serve food at a soup kitchen

• Pick out food, toys, and/or coats for a charity drive together

• Make holiday cards to drop off at a local senior home or hospital. Alternatively, you can do it through a program like Cardz For Kidz

3) Have an indoor picnic 

• Just because it’s winter time, doesn’t mean you have to miss out on picnicking! Put together a little snack plate, lay out a blanket, put on your favorite tunes and enjoy your picnic!

4) Paint snow

5) Set up a spa day

• Who doesn’t love to be pampered? Make some hot cocoa, slice some cucumbers, and buy a couple face masks to treat your kids to their very own spa.

6) Check out events at your local library or YMCA

7) Go on a nature walk

• For bonus points, look up a couple quick facts about local plants and animals to share!

We hope you find these suggestions helpful in keeping the kids entertained through creative activities during holiday breaks. Best of luck keeping them entertained and happy holidays!