Mental Health

3 ways to be an Educated Consumer of Mental Health Information Online

A study by McKinsey found that Gen Zers have the least positive life outlook. The COVID-19 pandemic has only exacerbated the already widespread mental health issues of young people. Social media has been a resource for education and connection surrounding mental wellness but it can be tough to parse the helpful from the not so helpful. The internet is a treasure trove of information, but unfortunately not all of it is accurate, especially on social media. With the right presentation and delivery, it isn’t difficult to convey convincing information regardless of how truthful it is. Furthermore, in the context of an isolating global crisis, everyone is desperate for connection and community so it may be easier to ignore warning signs of misinformation in search of that connection. While it’s great that social media allows us to have larger conversations about mental health and coping, those positive effects are undermined by misinformation. 

There is nothing shameful about trusting an inaccurate source. It’s important, however, to make sure that any information about mental health, especially if it’s actionable, is factual and helpful for a particular individual. As the Psychiatric Times explains, “media pollution, which can intensify anxiety… as well as contribute to unsuccessful therapies… is inextricably linked to misinformation and false news.” So not only is mental health misinformation irresponsible to spread, but also actively harmful. On that note, you should ensure that everything you share in addition to consume is accurate, to the best of your ability. Unfortunately, one study found that “experiencing clinical depression was still strongly associated with an increased likelihood of endorsing misinformation” which makes it even more difficult to parse through. Here are some suggestions that may help you navigate this complicated landscape:

Don't take things at face value; question them!

Some good questions to ask yourself when you come across a dubious post are:

  • Is this the original account, article, or piece of content?

  • Who shared this or created it?

  • When was this created?

  • What account is sharing this? When was the account created? Do they share things from all over the world at all times during the day and night? Could this be a bot?

  • Why was this shared?

Use fact checking websites

Websites like Snopes, Health News Review, and Politifact are made specifically for fact checking. These are great first stops in your fact checking journey. The non-profit Bellingcat also has an amazing compilation of “online investigation” resources that cover the verification of images, social media posts, news articles, and more.

When in doubt, ask for help

If you look into the information at hand and still aren’t sure how true it is, check in with a trusted friend, or therapist perhaps one versed in mental health and psychology. 

It can be intimidating to wade through the dizzying amount of mental health misinformation but with these skills and tips, you’ll be better equipped to parse through it. Luckily, in addition to the misinformation, we also have tons of resources at our fingertips to verify it as long as we’re willing to take the time. Happy fact checking!

5 Winter Survival Strategies

Do you suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)? It's pretty common to notice decreased mood in the colder, darker months. The days are shorter, the temperature is chilly, and the sky is gray. It’s completely understandable that your mood might be more blue than normal. Fortunately, there are things you can do to find more cheer and stability throughout the winter. 

Try these tips to help prevent the winter blues:

  1. Reach out to friends and family when you're feeling down. Here are some ways to hang out in a COVID safe way while still having a blast!

  2. Set appropriate boundaries so you have the time and energy you need to take care of yourself. 

  3. Try a SAD lamp. These bright lights can help boost serotonin in your brain and improve your mood. It also helps to regulate melatonin which helps with sleep, an important component of health year-round.

4. Talk to a doctor about supplements and types of exercise that can help boost your "happy" hormones such as: endorphins, serotonin, and dopamine. Some options include

5. Consider speaking with a therapist for extra support. ESW has therapists on staff who can help.

Here’s to an easy, joyful winter! Remember to take care of yourself to avoid burnout.

Physical Intimacy After Sexual Trauma

Content warning: discussion of trauma and sexual assault

Sexual trauma is one of the most harrowing experiences someone can go through and unfortunately, it’s far too common. Sexual trauma can be caused by any kind of non-consensual sexual experience; including rape, sexual assault, sexual harassment, and childhood molestation. Given that trauma is subjective, it is up to the individual to determine how to define their experience. On average, there are 450,000+ survivors of rape and sexual assault every year in the United States, a number which is likely underreported. Survivors of sexual trauma frequently struggle with PTSD and are more likely to abuse drugs and alcohol to cope. Experiencing sexual trauma has the potential to upend someone’s entire life, not least of all their sex life. Trauma responses can range from sex repulsion to hyper-sexuality. There is no one timeline or coping strategy that will work for every survivor of sexual assault so the most important part is to respect one’s own boundaries and to move at a pace that feels comfortable. There’s no obligation to return to consensual sex but for those who want that, healing is possible, even if it is sometimes challenging. 

Common obstacles to resuming consensual intimacy may include negative body image, flashbacks, and PTSD. If it’s accessible to you, work with a trauma informed therapist to facilitate your healing process. Embrace Sexual Wellness offers therapy to address sexual trauma concerns and you can learn more about our services here. In the meanwhile, the following tips and resources can assist your healing process. 

General Tips

  • Identify your specific triggers and boundaries to understand what your healing process should work to address

  • Move at your own pace

  • Explore intimacy solo before partnered 

  • Test out different coping mechanisms for trauma healing such as talk therapy, mindfulness, and medication 

  • Reassociate intimacy, touch, and sensuality with positive connotations

  • When returning to partnered intimacy, be in constant communication


Body Image 

  • If your body image has been affected by sexual trauma, it may put you at risk for self-harm or disregard for your own safety so it is vital to address as soon as possible

  • Surround yourself online and in real life with a diverse community of body positive or body neutral people, especially on social media

  • Understand that you deserve peace and to feel worthy. You deserve self-compassion

  • Resources

Flashbacks/PTSD

Reintroducing Intimacy

  

Reclaiming Sexuality

  • Masturbation can aid in reclaiming a sense of control and ability to experience sexual pleasure

  • Both hypo- and hypersexuality are normative post-trauma responses 

  • Read articles and books to guide you through reclaiming your sexuality. Good book options include 

    • The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

    • Dear Sister: Letters from Survivors of Sexual Violence edited by Lisa Factora-Borchers

    • The Rape Recover Handbook: Step by Step Help for Survivors of Sexual Assault by Aphrodite T. Matsakis

    • The Sexual Healing Journey by Wendy Maltz

    • Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma by Staci Haines 

  • Talk about shame, obstacles, concerns, and intimacy through with a consenting friend or, ideally, a mental health professional

  • Be patient and kind to yourself

  • Resources


Regardless of your experience or post-trauma response, you deserve to heal, reclaim your sexuality, and enjoy sex again (if you enjoyed sex pre-trauma). Your experience is valid and please give yourself grace as you navigate the complex feelings associated with healing trauma. Build your support network, read up on healing strategies, and be patient. If you’ve tried healing on your own and you need more support, contact us for trauma-informed therapy.